1. Nice people don’t complain.
2. Nice people grin and bear it.
3. Nice people ignore the (physical/emotional) pain and keep taking the punishment instead of speaking their mind.
Any of this sound familiar?
I could just as easily have typed in “spiritual” instead of “nice.”
Isn’t it interesting how Truth can be perverted into twisted beliefs?
It’s true that complaining creates energy that isn’t conducive to creating a positive outcome. But maybe that first statement would have a better message if we changed it to:
Nice people don’t complain. They do something to improve the situation.
The second statement is a bit better. Making the best of your circumstances seems like a good choice.
But if it morphs to the third statement, which it often does, there are going to be repercussions. Consistently ignoring (aka “stuffing”) your feelings when you’ve been hurt or treated unfairly does a lot of damage.
Burying those emotions actually causes them to get stuck in your energy field, like a tangled ball of string. Collect a bunch of those tangled balls of energy, and stuff just isn’t going to work optimally for you.
Important stuff. Things like
- Your immune system.
- Blood pressure.
- Liver function.
- Your ability to handle stressful situations.
And if you don’t care about yourself (but I sure hope you do), think of the person you’re allowing to abuse you. You’re setting up a karmic debt that’s gonna have to be balanced at some point.
Is that what you want?
Yeah, didn’t think so.
So how do you fix this?
Well, from here on out, you can choose to act differently. Respond in a way that that diffuses a bad situation and allows something good to come out of it instead.
Sometimes easier said than done. But definitely do-able.
And as for that damage created in the past?
We can actually “comb out” those tangles. Resolve the health issues the tangles caused. Let go of the emotional and yes, the physical pain connected with them.
It’s a process, usually multi-layered, and often with results that feel almost magical.
Wanna try it?
You can schedule a free sample session here.
“Tangled Energy” photo credit: loonyhiker on Flickr
